So, since I posted on my FetLife that I was interested in looking for a new Dom/me or switch, I've been getting a lot more messages and meeting new people to share experiences (sadly all of the people who were interested didn't meet a qualification or two I mentioned in the post such as location or age), but it's been fun chatting none of the less.
One of the comments I got from a handful of people was that they don't understand how someone could be a switch: They always felt dominant or always wanted the control. So I thought it might be fun to explain my mindset in being a switch.
To start, I'm already bisexual, so I am already open to what gender I'm interested in (But I'm still monogamous in my relationships). But the way I explain this is this- there are some people I look at and I could imagine being dominated by him or her and have a good (if not, great) time. But then, there are times I look at someone and think "damn, I need to gag you and listen as you attempt to beg for permission to cum." One example I had was a friend of mine who explained (not with the intention of me Domming him) that he was looking for a "sexual deviant." As soon as he said that, that previous thought came to my mind because he was so innocent when it came to sex, and he was a couple years younger than me. (nothing came of it, he has a girlfriend now, and I wasn't interested in him in that way anyways.)
Also, as I mentioned in a previous post when I had thoughts of controlling my last Master, that feeling of suddenly taking control came over me because I knew he would like it, and so would I. It was the thought of "turning the tables"- especially if they didn't expect it. I feel like there's a possibility of becoming bored if it was all one or the other.
If you're ever interested in other topics I can post about, you can always comment an idea or inbox me at dolly.slavegirl@gmail.com
-<3 DS
